Let me start off by saying hind sight is 20/20 and I was so stupid.
This all started in June of 2013. I met this man and he was funny and cool to hang around. He swept me off my feet despite him not having a job, having 12 kids and 8 baby moms. (yeah I was so stupid) After a few months of dating aka me footing the bill dating. I decided I would help him find a job around me. I mean he was basically living with me as it was anyway. (This man had no license a criminal record so getting a job was hard for him.) So I told him to use the temp agency by me to get a job. Boom within a week he had a job. At first my mom was driving him to work and I would pick him up at night. Then it worked into him driving my truck because work was only a mile away for him. About October he started being real secretive on his phone hiding his screen. Hid the fact he was in a relationship with me on Facebook. Of course he did this because some men made comments on my pics about me being pretty. I told them thanks but I had a man and was happy but apparently I did not handle it right according to him.
I was starting to think something was wrong here and that is when my friend told me that she had seen him on his pof profile a lot. I told him I was hurt asked him to delete it. His excuse was he was just on it to make friends. Despite most of my friends warnings I stayed with him. Christmas came and went…
Then after the New Years he started wanting to go back home to see his cousins. I was like ok. But I was not allowed to go with him. Then shortly after Valentines day I had a lady approach me and tell me about the time he was supposed to be hanging with his cousins. Turns out he was supposed to be with her that night. She was one of his exes. I accused him his dad came and got him. He came crawling back somehow making this again all my fault and talking about how this girl was just trying to break us up cuz she wanted him. Things go on like this forever. He has the passwords to my Facebook everything cuz he did not trust me but really he was the one messing around.
Then I found out he met this other chick because her boyfriend found me on Facebook and told me he followed her to his house. (AKA his sisters house) He told me right where it was and everything. There was pics of them together at the club. This girl said she was not with him when I confronted her but then had details about his body.
Things continued to be bad until the day before my birthday in July of 2014. We split he moved back and there was no going back. Every few weeks he would text me tell me he missed me and so on but nothing ever came of it.
Well February of 2015 shortly after Valentines day he got. Yep I was emotional he wanted to work things out. He realized how good he had it. Can he come over to talk. Yeah we had sex boom next day he was ready to bounce. Then I find out he has a girlfriend. I hope that she some how see this so she knows now to get out! Run block this man and never look back cuz you are one in a long list of women he has burnt!
Oh and he has a fake Facebook account under the name Tyson Martin.
But I know now I am much better off and happier without him. I don’t walk on eggshells anymore worried that he will take anything I say or do as something to get another mans attention. I am busy now living the life I imagined!
The one picture of him on the beach yeah I paid for that trip to Florida and those trunks he is wearing. smh I was some kind of stupid.