My husband and I have been married for 8 years. He is a caddy at a prestigious country club. He recently decided it would be a good idea to date the snack bar girl there who is 22 years old and has a boyfriend. I’m not sure how it even started. I assume it went like this, “Hi. I’m an uneducated 22 year old who looks like she has fleas. I just got highlights so after four years of working here quietly, I think I am able to start wrecking lives. Would you like to be my first victim, and would you like a tuna wrap or hot dog?”
Cassie Smail messaged him on Facebook. He started acting very distant. After two weeks, my husband was unrecognizable and had no interest in me or our son. One day he said he had to work on a Sunday, far away, for an event. I begged him not to go, but he said we needed the money. He asked how he looked as he left wearing the $150 White designer golf shorts I had bought him as a gift. He disappeared that day. I was begging him to come home…
He did return home but told me he wanted a divorce upon returning. A week later I received a picture from an anonymous number that exposed why my husband suddenly wanted a divorce. He organized a golf tournament with all the loser caddies that day and spent a ton of money we didn’t have playing golf and drinking all day.
Cassie Smail and the other snack bar lady who is middle aged, showed up at the golf course uninvited in her Walmart Mumu dress and attempted to get my husband to come out with her. The middle aged snack bar lady lives with a man and her children but is dating a caddy that has latched onto my husband and drug him down with him this summer. So they orchestrated a double date at mad mex and were texting my husband to please come as CASSIE downed margaritas in dismay as my husband wasn’t coming. She was texting him “seriously” ” I came to see you. Come on. You have to come.”
All the while he was on the phone with me discussing how I had made him his favorite dinner (I thought he was working and having a bad day) and asking him when he would be back. After twenty minutes of seeing how drunk, desperate, pathetic, immature, and trashy she was, he left and came home. The two days after that he was glued to his phone like a hawk with his talons in prey.
She was blowing up his phone asking what happened? When can they get together again? He must have come to his senses and told her he wasn’t interested. I found out this information a week later. When I confronted her she acted completely trashy and spoke to me with complete disrespect. She then didn’t believe that my husband was face booking her that she wasn’t invited to the golf outing to begin with and she needs to be more respectful as he is not interested.
Cassie Smail also told me to “suck some more d**k*”. Interesting, seeing as I’m not the mistress and cheater. She freaked out. She now is making scenes at work, has been kicked out of her house by her boyfriend who had also previously taken her in like a stray dog, and is attempting to get my husband back. This GIRL needs a serious reality check. She should be fired and someone should ask her parents why they failed so badly at raising a lady or even a decent human being.