This girl used to hang out with my family. She is best friends with my soon to be sister in law. She would hang out with all of us, husband included. Everyone knows marriages aren’t perfect and you have a few rough patches, but you get through them. Well this girl took advantage of that and started talking to my husband privately on FB. We were at a bonfire, I couldn’t find my husband, well he and Leanna were out in the darkness making out. I was waiting for him to return from “going to the car” and when he didn’t I went out there. She dove under her care claiming nothing was going on. REALLY! WTF! Obviously not happy and knew something was up. About a month later I’m on a date with my husband, later that night I had this very strong urge to check his phone. They had been texting throughout our date. He was sending her kissy faces. I contacted this w****, she kept saying nothing was happening. I told her to leave us alone.
Months go by and I find out they were making out at that party. She still hasn’t left us alone. We are in marriage counseling, she knows and doesn’t care. Btw, we have 4 kids and were married for 12 years when this happened. She knows all of this. So I beat her ass, hoping she got the message to back off. Well, my husband and I separated over their relationship. She jumped all over that. Well should I say she jumped on him. She began having sex with him while we were separated. She was in his house painting my kids rooms. But she doesn’t want kids. So why she wants to be with someone that has 4 is beyond me. Her background is a coke addict, alcoholic, and trailer park w****. She sits around and gets all messed up by herself. While my husband and I were separated she contacted him constantly inviting him over to get all messed up on drugs and alcohol. Throughout this whole thing she wouldn’t leave our family alone, knowing full well she was breaking my heart as well as my sweet babies. Who does this to a family? To this day she harasses me like she was the victim. She constantly blames me for all this. She takes no responsibility and has paid zero consequences.
I had to move and lost everything. My kids and I are in a two bedroom apartment. She also keeps telling me to get over it and telling my soon to be sister in law to chose her over me. I didn’t choose this, I never wanted this. I loved my husband so much and she destroyed everything. She still harasses me to this day. I try to do anything and she’s commenting and bitching up a storm. No one wants the drama so they try and stay out of it which means I also get pushed away. I just want to live my life in peace and happiness. My now ex-husband and I are working through things but she keeps butting herself in my life any way she can. She needs a strong message to move along and leave us all alone. Find someone else. She already destroyed my family, what else does she want? Well, she didn’t get my husband so maybe she’s still trying. Either way she needs a strong message to leave my family alone and needs to get over her selfish trailer w**** self.