Scott and I have been together for 3 years. I had been there for him when he was struggling to become a real estate agent. I was the one that encouraged him and helped him build a client base. Things weren’t always perfect but when they were good they were really good. Over the last couple of months I had noticed a change in his behavior; regarding work. He used to tell me about all his clients, about the properties he was showing and was always eager to fill me in on his day. Now he keeps everything private, every time I would ask about his day and he would give me one word answers. I felt completely betrayed and hurt; I was the one that helped him get a good start and now he was treating me like I didn’t belong in his life. A few months ago I decided to investigate why he had been so cold towards me and so secretive about work. I admit I’m not proud about my snooping and never have been the prying type, but I felt used and mistreated and didn’t feel happy on a day-to-day basis. What I found out was just disgusting. At first there were 3 girls he was “playing” and then it only became one. He would leave at all hours of the day for “showings” and the two would play around during that time, unsure about if it was in the home itself or elsewhere.
Because him and I weren’t living together he had an easier time hiding it from me for this long. How can a guy begging me to move in commit these acts?!? I feel so stupid for believing him and falling for his act. I wasn’t going to post this but I feel so much anger and hate towards how he treated me, I want his business to struggle so he can see how much I struggled. I want everyone to beware of this boy who tried to play a game and thought he was good enough to play it. When I confronted him he told me we weren’t compatible, no s***!! Tell me and break up with me, don’t tell me lies to my face and do the opposite, you are a coward!