I had been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half, your basic high school sweat hearts going to take over the world. We went to college in a small farming town and thats when she changed, she just wasn’t actint the same anymore and complained about where we where constantly. I thought higher education was the way but I guess not. I started working night shifts at the local walmart and stopped going to classes so we could get out of this town she hated so much. she got a job at an over night type of deal too. And thats when she met him.
she introduced me to him before she told me she’d be out of town for a month. that turned into two and a half. i worked my ass off and was in line for a promotion and finally felt like i was moving up in the world a bit (its a big deal when your 19) when she insisted we move asap after getting back from the trip. i put in my two weeks and a day before we left i found out she cheated on me with him. he is married with two kids (at the time his wifes pregnant with the second) and while all this was going on he took special precautions to make sure if there was a divorce he wouldn’t lose his house. interesting when a house is more important then your kids. any way he promised her a job and a life. we budgeted our move according to her new job. turns out she never had it. now im having to pay for a place i cant afford and have just lost my job i almost had my promotion at. i had to donate plasma twice a week just to eat. i have permanent marks on my arms from this. i lost 40 pounds and became extremely sick. i could not afford food with enough nutrients in it. i have to explain the track marks in job interviews so they dont think im a junkie. he continuously messaged her setting up secret meetings while his wife is harassing MY friends and family because she cant find hers. i was getting s*** from my w**** girlfriend, the s*** lord husband, and his b**** wife. i had to change my number because of all the harassment, she tracked down MY MOTHERS address and started sending her letters and creating fake accounts to spam me and my friends with. the entire time this dude is still cheating on her and i have a girl crying in my ear about how sorry she is while texting him. two years later and im no longer with the girl but i still get harassed. lessons from all this? you can only trust yourself and your dog, and never try to stick around a liar because YOU’RE going to get screwed over. hopefully his kids dont turn out as vile up as the parents.