In April of 2015, I signed up for Tinder. As a single female, I was curious to see who was in my area. A few days after joining, I found across a guy named Jason Baldwin. He was cute, and we started talking. He was so sweet. He had a tragic story about how his wife died, and he was now all alone. He played up this extravagant life style that he lived. He was in the Army, and being a military town, I try to stay away from any military men, because of some past experiences. But, I thought he was different. The conversation quickly turned to sex. We also met multiple times. We talked constantly, any time I wasn’t at work. A few weeks later, he left to go to MO for training. He was still talking to me just as much. All day, all night. He would tell me he wanted me to move in when him when he got back home. A few weeks went by, and one day on Facebook, in the people you may know portion, there he was. After giving me some bogus story about how he doesn’t do social media, his face was plastered on my phone, with a different last name. After looking through his pictures, I was STUNNED! He was married, and his wife was still very much alive. He also had two children. Basically, the entire story he gave me about himself was a lie.
Because I felt horribly guilty, I messaged his wife to immediately apologize, and let her know he was scum. It took a few days for her to respond, but when she did, I was again stunned.
Not only was he talking to me, he was still carrying on a relationship with his wife, he had met another girl in MO, and was talking to someone else from IN. His wife informed me that the girl in MO was told the same story, but after finding out the truth, chose to STILL date him. Her name is Sila Karacal, she’s an attorney. The woman from IN, Kendra tebo bilter, was given the truth from the beginning, and chose to continue to talk to him, and even traveled down to met him on occasion, leaving her own husband and children at home.
He came back in between training, and constantly tried to contact me, even showing up at my apartment. I refused any contact with him. His wife and I actually formed somewhat of a friendship, and I just couldn’t believe the man I was falling in love with was in reality such a horrible person.
He left for MO, and the relationship continued. Hes leaving for Korea, and Sila plans to move in with him when he returns. The last I heard, He has completely checked out on his family, and choses to drink himself into a drunken mess, and sext with Kendra.